We’re Realising That Our Emotions Often Depend on Our Body’s State

One quiet sign of maturity is recognising something we used to overlook: our emotions are deeply tied to our physical state.

We grow up thinking our mood swings must be caused by big life events — relationships, work, identity crises. But often, the emotional storms we feel are triggered by something far simpler and far more physical:

• a night of poor sleep

• skipping meals

• a sudden drop in blood sugar

• hormonal shifts

• dehydration

• chronic stress building up quietly

Sometimes the “existential crisis” we think we’re having is just our body running on empty.

As we mature, we start treating our physical state with more respect. We track our sleep. We protect our bedtime like it’s sacred. We refuse to have serious conversations at 2 a.m. because we know that a tired brain reacts, it doesn’t reason.

We begin to understand that the body is the hidden steering wheel of our emotions.

Think about it:

• You’re convinced your friend is ignoring you — but you realise you haven’t eaten in six hours.

• You feel like your relationship is falling apart — but you only slept three hours last night.

• You think you’re “failing at life” — but you’re actually just exhausted from a long week.

• You feel overwhelmed by tiny problems — but your hormones are fluctuating.

This awareness doesn’t make our emotions less real. It simply helps us interpret them with more compassion and less panic.

Instead of blaming ourselves for being “too emotional,” we learn to ask: “Is my body okay?”

This shift frees us from the fantasy that we should be rational at all times. It teaches us to step back during physical low points, to be gentle with ourselves, to delay big decisions until our body is steady again.

By listening to the body’s whispers, we escape the cycle of self‑criticism and move toward a more grounded, forgiving inner life.

Balancing with Nature: Understanding Traditional Chinese Medicine

 

Balancing with Nature: Understanding Traditional Chinese Medicine

Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) is more than a medical system — it is a way of seeing life. It begins with a simple observation: humans are part of nature. Just as trees need sunlight, water, and rich earth to thrive, people need balance in their daily rhythm, emotions, and surroundings.

In TCM, health is not only the absence of disease but the presence of harmony. When someone feels tired all the time or becomes easily upset, it isn’t just a question of one organ or one symptom; it is a sign that life’s natural flow has been disrupted — like a stream blocked by fallen leaves. The goal of TCM is to help that stream flow smoothly again, restoring the body’s rhythm and ease.

Where Western medicine often focuses on the part that hurts — fixing a joint, lowering blood pressure, or destroying bacteria — TCM tends to look at the whole garden instead of the single plant. Western science is excellent at measuring, identifying, and analyzing the physical causes of illness. TCM, however, focuses more on relationships: how sleep affects mood, how emotions affect digestion, and how every part of life responds to the weather, food, and time of day.

TCM believes our bodies change with the seasons. In spring, we should move and stretch; in summer, enjoy lightness and openness; in autumn, slow down and reflect; in winter, keep warm and conserve energy. This living rhythm aligns us with the larger world — it teaches that healing isn’t only found in medicine but also in the way we live each day.

The roots of this way of thinking may sound poetic, yet they point toward a practical truth: balance creates strength. To live in tune with nature and with ourselves is to nurture quiet resilience — the kind that doesn’t only repair illness but builds vitality long before sickness appears.