Using the 36 Virtues to Assess Yourself and Colleagues in the Workplace

 

Using the 36 Virtues to Assess Yourself and Colleagues in the Workplace

In the modern workplace, self-awareness and reliable relationships are key to success. The ancient "36 Virtues of Good Speech and Conduct" offer a timeless checklist to evaluate one's own character and observe friends, co-workers, or even leaders. These traits—ranging from reliability and generosity to composure and empathy—reveal true integrity beyond resumes or charm. By reflecting on them daily, professionals can build better habits, spot supportive allies, and avoid toxic influences, fostering trust and productivity in teams.

Checklist for Self-Reflection and Workplace Observation

Use this to rate yourself (e.g., 1-5 scale) or note examples in others. Focus on consistent behaviors.

1. Traits arise from the mind and change with it.

2. Admires and emulates noble people.

3. Balances firmness and flexibility in actions.

4. Shares food generously.

5. Avoids petty or harmful individuals.

6. Creates convenience for others; practices hidden good deeds.

7. Maintains an orderly daily life from youth.

8. Patiently helps those who seek assistance.

9. Practices self-restraint to benefit others.

10. Completes tasks from start to finish.

11. Stays calm in crises.

12. Keeps promises and appointments.

13. Upholds principles even at personal loss.

14. Avoids random thoughts at bedtime.

15. Decides thoughtfully, then acts decisively.

16. Refrains from hateful actions.

17. Admits faults without excuses.

18. Plans actions thoroughly.

19. Never forgets kindness received.

20. Has a broad mind that tolerates others.

21. Values others' good intentions.

22. Helps the lonely and needy.

23. Never aids the strong against the weak.

24. Cherishes old friendships.

25. Enthusiastically supports public good.

26. Avoids excessive or false talk.

27. Thanks people for gifts.

28. Speaks in a structured, logical way.

29. Doesn't interrupt during conversations.

30. Highlights others' good deeds.

31. Accepts poor clothes/food gracefully.

32. Adapts wisely to situations (square, round, curved, straight).

33. Persists in good deeds without tiring.

34. Considers others' hunger, thirst, or fatigue.

35. Forgives those who repent without holding grudges.

36. Exhausts efforts to help old friends in trouble.

Traditionally: Mastering all 36 leads to high office and long life; 20 ensures leadership roles; 10 guarantees wealth.