We’re Realising That Our Emotions Often Depend on Our Body’s State

One quiet sign of maturity is recognising something we used to overlook: our emotions are deeply tied to our physical state.

We grow up thinking our mood swings must be caused by big life events — relationships, work, identity crises. But often, the emotional storms we feel are triggered by something far simpler and far more physical:

• a night of poor sleep

• skipping meals

• a sudden drop in blood sugar

• hormonal shifts

• dehydration

• chronic stress building up quietly

Sometimes the “existential crisis” we think we’re having is just our body running on empty.

As we mature, we start treating our physical state with more respect. We track our sleep. We protect our bedtime like it’s sacred. We refuse to have serious conversations at 2 a.m. because we know that a tired brain reacts, it doesn’t reason.

We begin to understand that the body is the hidden steering wheel of our emotions.

Think about it:

• You’re convinced your friend is ignoring you — but you realise you haven’t eaten in six hours.

• You feel like your relationship is falling apart — but you only slept three hours last night.

• You think you’re “failing at life” — but you’re actually just exhausted from a long week.

• You feel overwhelmed by tiny problems — but your hormones are fluctuating.

This awareness doesn’t make our emotions less real. It simply helps us interpret them with more compassion and less panic.

Instead of blaming ourselves for being “too emotional,” we learn to ask: “Is my body okay?”

This shift frees us from the fantasy that we should be rational at all times. It teaches us to step back during physical low points, to be gentle with ourselves, to delay big decisions until our body is steady again.

By listening to the body’s whispers, we escape the cycle of self‑criticism and move toward a more grounded, forgiving inner life.